Hi,
I haven't blogged much lately.
Life has just gotten busy and I am in a big of sexual angst.
I love the man I am with but we haven't had sex in over a year. We are very tender and physical with each other, kissing, cuddling and touching, but it doesn't result in sex. After eight years together we have gravitated to what works and avoid the tension when sex happens. Part of it is that we see sex so differently.
No matter if I am with a friend, lover, or stranger I tend to be passionate. I look for connection watch eyes, try to be responsive, but also like the mutual tug-of-war that goes on when two men get together.
The bf is a typical dominant top, he gets off on being served and dominating - two things that I find a turn-off.
So we avoid our difference and love each other for who we are.
