Conversation

I had this chat with a buddy of mine from Dudesnude.com


Scroll down his last post - very hot!

Buddy: Doing ok. Just read emails........off to bed. Long day. Late for YOU to be on here! GET TO SLEEP! ASAP!!! (You are married!?) Take Care Buddy

23 Jun 2009, 19:39
You: Hey my bf is out of town so I like to play ...

25 Jun 2009, 12:53
Buddy: GET TO HOUSTON THEN! I am headed to Charlotte in July. ;)

26 Jun 2009, 00:09
You: Are you moving to Charlotte or just vacationing?

Why not visit Boston we would have a wild visit

26 Jun 2009, 00:46
Buddy: Yes! You + Me + BF Hmmmmmmm That would be fun.......have you two ever? IT is fun........ I am headed to Charlotte to visit a friends Mother........Who through the years have stayed in contact with. Such a Fun Nice Lady(80's) Her son Michael passed away back in 1991. She misses him Dearly. Brings him up each time we talk. Felt it was time to SEE her while all is ok and she is still with us. :) Hmmmmmmmm

26 Jun 2009, 21:56
You: You are such a good boy.

We have done one threeway at a sauna in london. It was hot.

However, if you ever come to Boston I want you all to myself!

27 Jun 2009, 09:08
Buddy: I wonder after reading your Profile.....how much TROUBLE you really get into! Hmmmmmm! ;) So. Tell me who did what in the three way. Loved to have watched and then joined in. From what I remember your BETTER half ;) was nice looking. As far as Friends......Look for Good people. If you go into it looking at them as possible sex, etc. Not good long term. Then again it does work out... I have 5 long term Best Friends. All have been around longer then 10 years. YES I would want to Be with You as well........then maybe more with hubby. *(just to see how he fucks......maybe teach him by letting him watch me fuck you and how we both would really be into it ;) Sorry about loosing your job a while back. I did in 2000 One day just out the door. 17 years there. Crushed. Now. Love what I do but money is tight. I should have new pics on my site soon(someone is working on it for me for $$$ :*( Well, YOU BE GOOD

27 Jun 2009, 10:09
You: How much trouble?
Well, about two or three times a year I see one of three buds. All also have partners. We have a great time and its cool. Besides that I am a good boy. Wish you could teach my bf - the honest truth is we are all damaged in some ways - and I am not sure anyone can repair him but himself. I love him as he is - but sometimes I just have different needs that I am not sure he can fulfill.

Although it all sounds hot.

The threeway in the sauna in London - he fucked this guy from behind while the guy sucked me - I can remember - he had a shaved head and held his smooth head on my cock as I watched my bf pound him from behind - some stranger was working my nipples - it was pretty hot.

Odd you mentioned the job - I am supposed to have drinks with my old boss and last night I had dreams - still have lots of anger - although I love being a professor - directing a thesis program has is fun!

You sculpture is great so its good you changed!

can't wait to see the picks stud!

27 Jun 2009, 11:19
Buddy: Does the boyfriend Not want or mention a three way to you? How did the First one Happen......talked about beforehand? He is ok with it? You two talked afterwards? Just wondering what is in His mind. Tell him your desires.....needs in a good close loveing setting! ;) Then let him Fuck You for me............. ;*(

27 Jun 2009, 12:01
You: He has a hang up about threeways - when he was single he got into a messy thing with a couple - so he is cool with threeways when there is no potential for repeats like when we are in a sauna in London.

He liked the piggy raw(not unsafe but in the slutty sense) aspect of sex - he has an issue with intimacy - when we talk about sex and our issues he just says that I really don't like to bottom and we just like different things-he likes to dominate and I hate to submit and we are just different - what he doesn't understand is that getting off is okay but sometimes I need him to poor his love for me into the sex ... I don't know if I am explaining this right - but say when I give him a bj or a handjob he zones out - isn't there - I could be anyone - and that is alright sometimes, but its a chore to always have to refocus your partner in being "there" so I give up - does any of this make sense?

27 Jun 2009, 16:57
Buddy: It does............Not sure how to bring New Life back into that area for you. Books? Who knows. I can understand (at times) that most likely he is Fantizing while you suck him off.........just so he can focus....? I still think sometimes of a Coach from High School Down on me when in fact it is just someone ;) He says YOU don't want to bottom........for You want it slower, love making at times(which I love) vs him pounding that Sweet Ass of Yours ;) I have been with Aggressive people...they feel like sex has to be something they learned in a movie, etc....I slow them down.......gently touch them all over.......give body/back rubs to start......then get more sensual by licking Everywhere! Builds them up to Wanting it......then I slow Fuck them kissing and Chest to Chest Fucking for a while....then pull back some and take hold of his Cock and stroke him until we cum together...... Love that! Now! Can that be the same way All the time with the same person....Nope. Have to change things up......Just a Fast Good Fuck sometimes and get on with the day is good too! Let him have his way with you several times.........(lucky man) and see how it feels, works.....if he is more interested and then will take his time by you slowing him up. I love blindfolding one of my buddies.....while I have sex with him. It seems to change how you feel things. You FEEL everything vs sight. Next time you two get together and he is wanting to be sucked. Try a blindfold. Just try it. Towel over the eyes down to the nose area. Touch him all over very Very lightly! then start licking him.......his groin, legs(inner thigh), balls, chest, ribs, side of neck, then go down on him.....slowly softly with mouth only...then start using your hand with mouth and very wet....as you sense him getting closer.....just ever so slightly start to grasp a little more firm and stick out your tongue while your mouth is still going down on him and you are stroking him. Should be a Very Good Cum! :)

27 Jun 2009, 17:27
You: Oh man, why can't I be one of your buddies.

That email got me rock hard!

Seriously, it is very sweet of your to give advice. I really appreciate it and will try some of that stuff. As with all relationships it is just complicated. The day in and day out makes it easier to ignore problem and just appreciate each other - he is very sweet and loving person.

However, no matter how much I love him - there are certain people I have met on here that it would be lovely to have a night to enjoy each other - my sense is that you are a very good lover - just the way you talk about sex.

Glad I met you on here!

Now I am back to studying.

So sometimes it is better to live inside one's head
it is hard to live the life we want
and when we get a chance to do actually climb
the air gets thin

Down here on earth we have choices
Biting from the apple does nourish
the question is did the snake give it to us?

Just plain horny

Sitting here at work and I have a list of things to do, but man am I horny. I am dying to log on to manhunt or gay.com and see if any guys want to hook-up, but its too dangerous to use the internet at work for that stuff. Makes me want to pay the extra 20 a month and get internet on my phone so I can cruise for sex. Of course as I write that it makes me feel like an addict – needing my fix of internet porn or cruising. I suppose sex is an addiction. We men like to think of our constant jacking off as just our way of dealing with the genetic imperative to propagate the species. Since we can’t go around impregnating females we might as well jerk-off. As gay men it becomes almost a raison d’être. I have cum therefore I am.

Roll-over and assume the position

“Roll-over and assume the position,” was what I thought I heard as I was coming out of a deep sleep. BF had gotten up and I was vaguely aware of what was going on. His dick was hard and he was grabbing a towel and lube.

“What position? ... huh, what are you talking about ...” I croaked, stretched and rolled back over on the pillow.

“Head down – ass-up, “ he replied and crawled into bed.

“Sweetie – I am not awake and my stomache hurts,” every hour since 4 am I had been woken up with stomach pains ... next thing I knew he had given up on fucking me and was on his back jacking-off. Waves of guilt rolled over me and in my sleep addled state all the issues of our sexually dysfunctional relationship. After all neither of us has initiated sex in months and now he is asking and I am not only not fully awake, nor in the mood and to top it off – a bit funky because of my stomach. Half asleep I made an attempt to help and eyes closed played with his nipples as he jacked off.

Eventually he asked me to suck his nipples and he came. As his orgasm rocked through he cradled my head lovingly as I continued to flick my tongue over his nipples. Somehow the cuddle affirmed everything to me – yes I could rant and rave about how we are on different planets about sex. ..

... I could get on my pedestal about how the statement “roll over and assumed the position,” is so wrong when said to a sleeping bf.

.... I could beat myself up for not being the submissive bottom that my bf wants or beat him up for his inability to communicate his love and intimacy to me through sex.

In the end I love him.

He loves me.

And no matter how fucked up our sex life is – we have each other.

Don't Roll your Eyes

Our fair city is blessed with a series of paths that run along the river allowing one to bike/walk/ run from lots of areas to the downtown. It takes me about an hour to get from my house to my office all along the river with some minor crossing of streets and traffic.

On my way to work this morning I got to one part of the route where the pavement gets narrow, so that as a biker I have to be careful about pedestrians and runners. Generally, I warn people and tell them I am on their right or left and as I pass usually say thank-you.

So I see ahead of me two women jogging side by side. There was a narrow space between them and a fence. So I yelled ahead, but there was not response, they were too plugged into their IPods. As I got closer I said it again. Once again no response. Finally I shouted and one of the women pulled the other closer so I could pass. As I rode past I gave them a dirty look. The one woman yelled at me “don’t roll your eyes.” I decided not to reply but it really pissed me off.

We all have to share the road and have a responsibility to be aware of our surroundings. Clueless people who are so plugged in and cannot hear what is around them need to unplug and observe the rules of the road.

So I will continue to roll my eyes at clueless people!